It's Not About Me

I was recently asked the question, "How does God appear to you?"

Without a second thought my reply was that I find God in other people. Some people "talk" to God - they claim to hear an audible voice. I have never had that experience, but I don't doubt their experience. I yet to talk to anyone that has seen a burning bush...

For me, it has always been through people. For example, in a time when I need nothing more than encouragement, someone that I have not seen or spoken to in weeks will call out of the blue. Coincidence? Some may think that, but I belive it is God at work. I have been in conversations with people and the subject would divert down a rabbit hole and we would end up discussing an unspoken need.

If our commandment is to love one another - then it stands to reason that God would be at work in our relationships. Coming to us at the level of our need through other people.

Sitting in Sunday School class this past week the leader said the following - "I have to remember daily that it is NOT about me." I too have struggled with looking at self first - putting my needs above others.

His lessong centered around four teaching points:

1. Look for the good in other people.

2. Learn to build other people up. 1 Thes. 5:11 "Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing."

3. Be a reflection of God's love, foregiveness and grace. Eph 4:1-3 "I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace."

4. Guard the value of YOUR reflection. It is what others see.

No Regrets.

Air Bear

Air Bear is the affectionate nickname for my youngest daughter Erin.

Air Bear is the greatest volleyball player that ever has or ever will live. At least to me. Watching her mature and gain confidence in the game has been enjoyable. I'll admit, I have pushed her hard at times, but not because she lacks ability. Instead, it was because I know she CAN do better.

She has the ability, now it is a matter of her gaining self confidence - becoming a leader on the court.

Watching her "high-five" teammates, hearing other parents yell "Go Erin!", listening to coaches tell her how much she has improved are all satisfying. However, watching her slowly evolve into a leader on the court has been the most rewarding.

Erin, you have so much potential and a love for the game. Take it to the next level and see how far you can go.

No Regrets.